My husband is pulling away from me i need some advise?

My husband is 26 and i am 27 we have a two year old son together and have been married for 9 months. I am 29 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. But my husband seems to be pulling away he wont touch me, he wont have sex, he wont talk its like he is just shutting down on me. And it scaring me i am not sure what to think. And i don't know how to bring him back. He was not like this when our first son was born. Advise?My husband is pulling away from me i need some advise?
Perhaps there is something bothering him..or he is just not wanting to hurt the baby..men go through mood changes like women. He may be realizing that this means more money and lots of sleepless nights and he may be doing a ';here we go again'; reality check.. remember he hears a lot of ...';how the lady..are you ready.. how does she feel...'; . it really takes a lot of attention away from him and hearing all the baby talk can be over whelming to some.. just give him kisses and hugs and tell him how much you love him and how he makes you feel.. It is a lot to handle..try to stay connected by laughing and doing things together like walks and movies and parks.. It should pass..he is probably doing some mental preparing and to you he is shutting down...it was different because the first time was your first...he knows what to expect this time...and it is getting closer with each day.. Best to you bothMy husband is pulling away from me i need some advise?
i cant answer this one except from personal experience.


my wife became pregnant after we tried for 18 months.. the focus on our relationship upo to the pregnancy was on US..


when she became pregnant the focus moved from us to HER


then when tris was born the focus shifted from HER to THEM.


I was the sperm donor and the bloke to offer a cigar to at the hospital.


i felt alienated but how do you tell your wife this is the case without spoiling the parenting , the pregnancy, the life with the child.


i became jealous of her support. iwas waking up every two hours with a grumbly baby not sleeping and otherwere telling me how well he and his mum were doing..


so iwent to daddy school.


found a book on being a great dad by a NZ guy. Fatherhood by Warwick Pudney, then went to classes with the maternal health nurse.


Slowly i returned to being an involved dad... i spoke with the kids mother about this and was at each birth and delivered each of my three children...


talk to him. ask him if he feels included.. ask him for support and give him support too..
Men do this. Just go with it, he'll come back all the stronger when the time is right. Don't make an issue of it, you'll only push him avay further and deeper if you do.
I think that works in a pinch, but there are much more effective birth control options available. Have you considered the nuva ring?
Ask him if he turned to the side of boys or not. I'm not tryin to make an assumption--but no touching? That seems weird.