If you want great advise from people, how should you behave?

What kind of attitude and behavior will make your friends, co-workers or the people around you not hesitate to give you their thoughts and opinions on how to improve yourself?If you want great advise from people, how should you behave?
I like the first answer. Intuition. If you think negative thoughts about people or yourself, they often sense it. Realize that people can see your thoughts, even if they can't put it into words. Your intuition has your best advice. Then you won't need any, except about you job or something. I suspect your talking about personal adivice. Ask the boss about things that they might know. I still say your intuition. When I found that out it change my life.


Everyone has to go through all this stuff until they get it right. Usually you pick up social skills from parents unless they don't have them or enough insight into people or how to think.


Change your negative thoughts, use descriptive words and you'll understand the situation, about them and yourself.. If you can make the question good enough, you will probably know the answer.


Changing your thinking is hard unless you change the words you think with. Every situation and person is entirely different. Listen to your intuition. The subconscious is 50 megabytes speed and capacity and 50 bytes for the conscious mind. Is it any wonder you have a problem? Einstein said, ';The only real valuable thing is intuition? Notice the punctuation. No comma. He didn't say really valuable thing or real, valuable thing. He said that it is the only real thing. Hm. Makes you think, huh. Need I say more. I could go on. Probably for a month, but that's enough. It's better you should think about it.If you want great advise from people, how should you behave?
You should listen to what they say and evaluate it to see if you are comfortable with it and whether or not it is good advice. If it is, then you could implement it. Thank the person and if you took the advice, tell them you did and how it helped you.





However, some people don't want to improve and don't want the advice. In that case, don't ask for it.





If you ask for advice, listen and don't knock it even if you don't think it will work for you. You could say that you don't think you could do that but thank them anyway. Or you can try it.





Be careful abou whom you ask for help. Make sure they know what they are talking about or live it. Don't ask the drunk how to be sober or how to be a good employee as it probably won't work out. So ask people you admire about some of the areas about which you find admiration.





Good luck.



Firstly you must show sincere interest in listening to criticisms,advices or opinions and take it in an optimistic way as if to improve yourselves.secondly you must have the guts yourselves and self confidence about your statements or questions or even doubts.make sure that its relevant.thirdly you should not always count on every people to give the best.you must be the best of yourselves always and evaluate and compare all the opinions;decide on the best and relevant advice.don't keep on asking again and again-be confident and not to be worried.if you don't feel yourslves comfortable with the opinions or angry with them ,never ever express that.don't blindly hear the opinions,add your opinions too ;make it like a friendly chat(remember the age and treat with respection accordingly),don't go for disputing debates.if you act as if you got the best advice and later if some finds that you didn't use it,some may feel or think bad about it(maybe you were just scared to express your opinion towards it, worried about what they'll feel or how they will react-well this is exactly the reason why you should be bold and inform them about your opinions,friendly, to avoid misunderstandings).





in short,be happy,responsible,confident and bold to express yourselves and receive others' opinions;don't knock yourselves on it blindly and make a mess of blunders,think about everything(the opinions, the person who gave it, the situations,etc) being yourselves!





i'm only saying about the attitude and behavior one should have in this case;there are people who give wrong advices(perhaps worst)deliberately or not.to recognize it its important to be yourselves with self confidence.be able to make your own decisions and opinions.otherthan that we can't always depend on others' everytime until the matter in which you want opinions require public interests,opinions;especially of sth pertaining to others.





this is my reaction about your question-decide on it youselves comparing it with all others and evaluating ,being yourselves.
Just be yourself. If people don't like you for who you are then their not worth the time and energy for their opinions and thoughts. Plus trust your own gut.
Be happy and be honest. People get sick of liars and BSers. They also get very tired of people who complain all the time. We all have problems. It's OK to talk about them sometimes but don't walk around with a long face always looking for sympathy. Be there for others...
the best would be to seem very interested, to show them you really want good advice. you have to look sincere, maybe smile a little, but not too much so that they could believe you make fun of them. be honest with them and with yourself