If I did such a thing what advise would you have for me. What would I need to buy, how many and type of outfits would I need. Basically how could I enhance my experience so I can understand the lives of women a little better?If I spend 6 months as a member of opposite sex,what advise do you hve for me?
Buy feminine clothing without crossing the drag-queen line. That's one of the harder things that most cross-dressers with a desire to pass come upon when buying clothes. It can be a thin line, but see if you can find a sympathetic sales girl to help. A lot of people who work at big and tall women's stores are used to that sort of thing and will be cool with it. Also, use the time to study the small mannerisms. Things like crossing your legs at the ankles, pulling your hair out from under your coat, playing idly with jewelry, carrying things close to your chest, taking smaller steps, making small close gestures with your hands when you talk as opposed to the broader gestures men tend to use. It's all in the details. Those are the kind of things that we subconsciously use to pick up on gender.
If you're interested, try reading Deirdre McClosky's memoir Crossing. It's full of little tips from her transitional period. Please be careful too. There are a lot of hateful, ignorant, and sometimes violent people in the world.If I spend 6 months as a member of opposite sex,what advise do you hve for me?
Many drag kings say that when they first went out in their male persona, they were shocked because people moved out of their way in the street, didn't interrupt when they talked, etc. I've also heard the opposite - that the sudden lack of respect can come as an unpleasant surprise for men in your situation. So be prepared for that.
Other than that... study women's body language if you haven't already, get some shoes that don't have high heels, learn how to move in a skirt. (I've never managed that last one...)
weird, thats something i could never do, what happens when u want to go to the gym and workout? you cant very well barge into the womens locker room or you would be exposed, lol. and u cant go in the mens looking like a girl. this would suck if you were into fitness like myself. lol
Whatever you do - do not go to a womyn's studies class - if they ever detect your manliness, they will castrate you - mentally, physically, emotionally, financially - it doesn't matter, one or the other way you will leave a broken man.
jump jump jump just one step jump
no means no.
you remember that.
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