Is it ever okay to ask my boyfriend's bestfriend for advise?

I don't want to come in between them two, but his bestfriend will be the only one who truely knows how my boyfriend feels/thinks. We're all in our late 20's. Please help me! I feel like I'm 17 year old all over again!Is it ever okay to ask my boyfriend's bestfriend for advise?
well, I think it's a bit strange. Your boyfriend might think you're forming a relationship with his best friend like this and that you're fishing for information about your boyfriend which might make your boyfriend think you don't trust him. You should know how your boyfriend truly feels/thinks since you are the one that should be closer to your boyfriend than his best friend. I think you should talk to your boyfriend and not his best friend about matters that concern him. Just trust yourself and your instincts : )Is it ever okay to ask my boyfriend's bestfriend for advise?
of course its okay! if your bf isn't opening up to you the next best thing is the man's best friend. a guy's perspective is much different from a girl's which is why you need to talk to a guy about him. if i found out my bf was asking my best friend about me i'd be thrilled. because it shows you care. so if anything, he should look at it as you wanting to figure him out and if he was smart he'd take this as a ';i need to open up more or else she'll get tired of my ****.';


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If you don't mind him letting your boyfriend know you came and asked him for advise about him.....Because that's whats going to happen. He will tell him what you two talked about, so why just not ask your boyfriend straight up whats going on with him. If your in your late 20's, treat your relationship like it is. This is something a 17 year old would do. Good luck!
ofcourse! that's okay. :) but you have to be prepared over one thing: he can't tell you cold hard facts like ';ditch him, he's an ***.'; even if that's what you really need to hear/know. He's his best friend after all.





P.S. the worst thing that might happen is when he'll cover up for your boyfriend. so keep things level and still use your head. :)
Yes but you don't expect him to tell you if your boyfriend's feelings are not great. unlike girls, guys very hardly tell you the bad things their friends do. If you want answers, analyse his attitude and ask another man who doesnt know him. maybe your friends or acquaintances.
Well we have all been through this. Well if you think his best friend won't say anything to him about you coming for advice then by all means just ask. If not look what he does, a man is like a dog, they only care to fix and meand things!!!!
No If he wants you to know any-ting Hell tell you. I wouldnt like someone going to a friend about me Go to him. You are going to put yourself in the middle of it all Thats what happen. .
I think it's ok. My good friends wife always asks my opinion on issues she has in life or with him. Just hope he doesn't go and tell your boyfriend everything you two talk about.
Of corse it's ok! your bf's friends should be your friends to (to a limit if you know what i mean)
I don't see why not.
I don't think it would hurt.
yea its ok as long as ur boi friend is ok with it
of course it is okay